If I had a nickel for every time my wife stopped me from walking out of the front door, and asked me “are you wearing that”? Yea sometimes what we have on is just not working.
Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Colossians 3:12
We’re challenged to put on these Fruit of the Spirit daily. It’s a choice. Yea we could decide to put on something else that’s more common, but as King’s kids we’ve been called and chosen to wear royal attire.